浅谈高校学生工作者如何引导大学生恋爱——基于湖北工业职业技术学院工作实践

How College Tutors Guide Students to Love——Based on Work Experiences in Hubei Industrial Polytechnic

大学生恋爱是客观存在的一种现象,要求学生工作者正视大学生恋爱现象,对大学生恋爱现象进行积极的关注和适当引导,尤其是对失恋学生进行支持和干预十分重要,本文探讨了大学生该不该谈恋爱,对大学生恋爱,教育工作者应如何引导,如何应对学生失恋等问题进行了探索,找出行之有效的工作方式、方法与学生工作者分享,帮助学生顺利度过大学生恋爱期,使他们在成长中成熟。

It is a common phenomenon that college students fall in love. And it is important for school to pay attention to and guide students how to love, especially for lovelorn students. This paper discusses whether college students can fall in love or not, how to guide students to love, and how to deal with lovelorn affairs. Finally some proper methods are suggested to guide students how to love and to be mature.