家庭教育中的中国式问题

Problems Facing the Chinese Family Education System

家庭教育是家庭生活的重要内容,家长实施家庭教育的水平不仅影响孩子的未来,也与家庭生活的幸福感息息相关。目前我国家庭教育具有一些与社会经济、文化相联系的特点,主要表现在:隔代教养、父教缺失、亲子交流时间少、"乖"孩子情结、攀比心理、性教育缺乏、家长缺乏学习与反思意识等方面,为了孩子的健康成长,父母亲需要齐心协力,共同承担教养责任,提升实施家庭教育的水平。

Family education is the key to having a satisfactory home life , and has a large impact on a child ’ s development and future choices. Currently,our nation’s family education is strongly associated with its economy and culture. The traditional family education system is lacking several important elements. Often grandparents are forced to be role models in lieu of parents. Also ,the father figure is often missing from the picture as he is frequently away from home with work. This in turn leads to a decrease in interaction between the parent and child,and topics such as sexual education are neglected. Other issues with our family education system include the need to promote more autonomy and independence,the negative effects of rivalry,and the parents’ inability to reflect on learned material with their children. In order for children to grow and reach their full potential , parents must work together to resolve these issues and thereby improve the state of education within the family.