浅谈高校学生的人际交流素质培养

Analysis on the Interpersonal Communication Qualities Cultivation of College Students

社会中的人总是处于一定的社会关系之中,和谐的人际关系既是大学生心理健康不可缺少的条件,也是大学生获得心理健康的重要途径。搞好人际交往,处理好人际关系,是当代大学生应具备的基本素质之一。高校学生在人际交流活动中的心理需求包括尽量让别人喜欢自己,努力得到别人的信任等。从根本上说,人际交流是一个相互的过程,要求交际各方相互之间的关系保持和谐、融洽。培养高校学生人际交往素质的策略包括主动与人交往,把握好分寸;正确认识人际交往,克服社交心理障碍等。

People in society are always in certain social relationships, so the harmonious interpersonal relationship is indispensable to college students＂ mental healthy conditions and is the important way for students to get the mental health as well. It is the basic qualities that contemporary college students should possess to do a good job in interpersonal interaction and handle the interpersonal relationships. College students＂ mental demands in the interpersonal communication activities include obtaining others＂ affection as far as possible, trying to get others＂ trust and so on. Fundamentally speaking, interpersonal communication is a mutual process and requires the relationships between parties to keep harmonious. The strategies to cultivate college students＂ interpersonal communication qualities include communicating with others initiatively, holding good discretion, understanding the interpersonal communication correctly and overcoming the social mental barriers.