家庭教育方法思考——与子女一同成长

Discussion on the Method of Family Education

家庭教育对人的成长起着奠基作用,对人的影响也最为深刻与长远。同时,家庭中所特有的教育环境、教育方式以及教育关系使家庭教育过程更为复杂。因此,探究家庭教育的合理方法,充分发挥家庭教育的作用和效果就显得非常重要。具体来说,首先要明确家庭教育中特殊的主体关系,防止亲情泛滥;其次父母要树立良好的榜样,摆脱松散家风,营造合宜的家庭氛围;此外还要做到严慈相济,改变强制管教的行为;最后父母要完善自身角色,向子女学习,与子女一同成长,这样才能实现家庭教育中的"教学相长"。

Family education plays a fundamental role for the growth of people and it also plays the most profound and long-term influence to the person＇ s life, At the same time, the peculiar environment of the family education, family education mode and edu- cation relationship makes family education process more complicated, So Exploring reasonable method of family education, giving full play to the role and effectiveness of family education has very important value and significance. In particular, firstly, it is to clear the body of the special relationship in the family education and to prevent the family affection flood ; secondly, parents should set a good example, to get rid of loose family traditions and build appropriate family atmosphere; in addition, to do with strict and kindly teach, and change to enforce discipline behavior; finally, the parents should improve their own role, to learn from children and with their children grow up together, so as to achieve ＂teaching benefits teachers as well as students＂ in the family education.