以“哀悼”之名——从德里达的《哀悼工作》到《非诚勿扰2》

In the name of mourning: from The Work of Mourning by Derrida to You Are the One Ⅱ

哲学化的哀悼反思哀悼活动,并在反思中深入哀悼对象的思想深处;哀悼文学以最直接的情感抒发把读者带入哀伤的境地,却以哀伤净化灵魂;喜剧化的人生告别会则以轻喜剧的方式冲淡哀伤,使哀悼者更轻松地走出哀伤。尽管哀悼方式各异,然而它们接续了死者活在人们心中的东西,让逝者永生,让生者有能力去哀悼死者,并由此变得坚强。

Philosophically-oriented mourning forces people to introspect the work of mourning and touches the depth of the mourned.The mourning literature steers the readers into lament and catharsizes their souls;a comic farewell ceremony waters down the sadness and helps lamenters out of it more easily.Although in different ways, mourning can make the living emphasize the experiences and spirits of the deceased and coexist with them so that they can bear the lament and become tougher.