基于“爱情三角形理论”的大学生恋爱观调查研究

A Probe into College Students' Views on Love Based on Sternberg's Triangular Theory of Love

以自编《大学生恋爱观调查问卷》为工具对382名大学生进行问卷调查。研究验证斯登伯格三角形理论的合理性,调查大学生恋爱观的现状。得出研究结论:斯登伯格爱情三角形理论的中国化是可行的;男生恋爱观比女生更积极;男生择偶标准更注重女生的健康人格特征和内在修养,而女生则更关注男生的人品和才能;在爱情成分的重要性看法中,女生看重亲密成分,男生看重激情成分和承诺成分;有恋爱经历的学生比没有恋爱经历的学生更能够理解和接受激情成分和承诺成分,也更能够"主动表白"。而失恋经历会对大学生的恋爱观会产生不良影响;独生子女大学生比非独生子女大学生更为主动和积极地追求爱情。

In order to verify the rationality of Sternberg’s triangular theory of love and to investigate current college students’ views on love, a survey was conducted in 382 undergraduate students by using a self-editing questionnaire College Students’ View on Love. The findings are as follows. Firstly, it is feasible to sinicize Sternberg’s triangular theory of love. Secondly, boys’ views on love are more positive than girls. As for the standards of choosing spouse, boys emphasize personality traits and inner cultivation, and girls are more concerned with moral quality and ability. Thirdly, for the importance of love elements, boys care more about passion and commitment, and girls care more about intimacy. Fourthly, the students who have love experience can understand and accept passion, commitment and expressing love more than those who do not have. Love failure experiences have bad effects on university students’ love view. Finally, the female student who is the only child of family takes more initiative in pursuing love than those with siblings.