韩中女性的死别研究——许兰雪轩与丁宁的比较

The Study on Bereavement Korean and Chinese Poetesses —— Contrast between Heo Nanseolheon and Ding Ning

许兰雪轩和丁宁都失去了自己的子女,但是许兰雪轩在失去女儿仅仅一年之后,连唯一的儿子也失去了,伤心过度的她非常害怕自己还会失去腹中的第三个孩子。丁宁则无法接受四岁的女儿死亡的打击,以梦境为媒介,迫切希望能与女儿重逢。许兰雪轩对自己生活的朝鲜时代,自己是女性的事实,以及自己是金诚立妻子的事实怀有强烈的不满。丁宁则在失去了女儿之后,将愤怒发泄到了丈夫身上,向与自己隔阂越来越深的丈夫提出离婚,两人的关系就此破裂,经过三年的判决,结束了这场婚姻。娘家的没落给许兰雪轩造成了巨大的伤害,在这个世界上唯一认可并激励自己的小兄许的死,更使许兰雪轩陷入了无法承受的绝望的深渊,最终在27岁时结束了自己短暂的一生。丁宁则虽与丈夫离婚,但为终生赡养继母,所以发誓不会再婚。

Both Heo Nanseolheon and ding Ning ever lost their own kids, however, just one year after the death of her daughter, Heo Nanseolheon lost her only son as well, which made her devastated and fear to lose another child in her womb. Similarly, Ding Ning was unable to accept the strike of her four-year-old daughter＇s death so as to wish eagerly to have a reunion with her daughter in her dream. Heo Nanseolheon was dissatisfied with the Joseon Period where she lived and the fact that she was born as a female and married Kim Seongrip. After losing her daughter, Ding Ning gave her vent to her husband and asked for divorce for more and more misunderstandings and conflictions. She ended up divorcing her husband after a three-year trial. The decline of her own family did greatly harm to her and the death of XU feng, her little brother, who is the only one recognised and encoursed her in the world made her caught into the slough of despond. Heo died young at the age of 27. Ding Ning divorced her husband, but swore not to remarry for she has to support her step mother all her life.