识“女人”即可辨“小人”——“唯女子与小人难养也”之我见

《论语》中的"唯女子与小人难养也,近之则不逊,远之则怨。"这是最有争议的一句。从古至今,无论是专门研究者还是一般接受者,各说各理。对句中"女子"和"小人"的解释,更是"百花齐放"。本文从一个独特的角度,以娓娓道来的方式,明确了"小人"的界定,解释了"女子"与"小人"的关系。明确指出,认识"女人"的特性是判断"小人"的最简单最准确的标准。

In the analects of Confucius, the sentence ＂only women and inferior men are difficult to deal with. If you＇re close to them, they are unruly; If not, discontented.＂ is of the most controversial one. In all ages, experts and common receivers all have their own opinions towards this sentence, and have different explanations to the ＂Nv Zi＂ and ＂Xiao Ren＂. From a unique point, this paper clears the definition of ＂Xiao Ren＂, and explains the relationship between ＂Nv Zi＂ and ＂Xiao Ren＂. And it clearly points that the awareness of women＇s characteristics is the easiest and most accurate standard to the iudzment of ＂Xiao Ren＂.