“吻你万遍”的浪漫之爱——从两地书看瞿秋白深爱杨之华的情感魅力

The Romantic Love of "Kissing You a Million Times" : the Charm of Emotion between Qu Qiubai and Yang Zhihua Reflected in the Letters of Two Places

中国共产党早期革命领袖瞿秋白既有献身革命的高尚情操,又有钟情爱妻的缠绵柔怀。他在给夫人杨之华的信中,每每喜用"亲爱爱"、"好爱爱"、"乖爱爱"的昵称与"吻你万遍"等醉人心怀的温馨词语,感人至深。在信里,集中体现了他对爱妻杨之华刻骨铭心相思切、体贴入微关爱深、心心相印抚慰诚的纯正挚情,彰显了人性的至美境界,给人以坦诚而真实的温情脉脉可亲可爱的形象,这与毛泽东、马克思等伟大人物的深厚的爱妻情结是一脉相通的,对当代社会的爱情、婚姻、家庭皆具有深刻的启迪意义。

Qu Qiubai, the early leader of communist party in China, not only had the high morals for dedicating his lifeto revolution, but also had the deep love for his wife. In the letters to his wife, Yang Zhihua, he preferred greetings suchas ＂dear＂, ＂my beloved＂, ＂my adorable＂ and the warm words like ＂kissing you a million times＂, which moved readersdeeply. In the letters, his love for his wife was deep, sweet, considerate, and full of mutual understanding. All of thesewarm emotions symbolize the beautiful virtues of humanities, and his gentle and frank image can be compared with thewife-loving complex held by Mao Zedong and Marx, which can give insight to the love, marriage, family in current society.