伦理与法律的冲突与契合:“常回家看看”条款的实践品性与法律适用

The Conflicts & Fitting between Ethics and Laws:Practical Features and Application of Law on the Clause of Go Home Often

“常回家看看”条款具有深厚的“以礼入法”的中国传统法律文化色彩，关照到了人口老龄化、“空巢家庭”引发的老年人精神赡养问题，具有强烈的现实性，反映了立法对社会现实问题和人伦亲情的深切关照。“常回家看看”条款引出诸多不同观点，从深层次上反映出当下中国家庭伦理与法律问题的复杂性。面对复杂的社会现实，固守伦理与法律的分离性命题，必然无法回答当代中国的家庭问题。因此，从法律适用角度来看，在面对精神赡养纠纷时，应当将“常回家看看”条款置于亲属法的视角内进行理解与适用，法院通过个案裁判使具有伦理价值色彩的条款具体化，进而发挥出该条款在行为规范、伦理关怀、社会导向等方面的功能。

The paper elaborates the practical features on the clause of Go Home Often on the aspects of aging population and legislative advocacy. It points out that the clause of Go Home Often combining ethical with the law; this reflects the legislation issues of deep care of social reality and human relations. On the basis of the social law attribute of the Protection of the Right and Interests of Elderly People, it makes a detailed analysis in the perspective of the relative law. In the trial practice, the legal case of spiritual support generally faced difficulties on judging, referee＇ s standard and executing. However, we should pay more attention to eliminate emotional risks between relatives when judging, meet the complexity feature of supporting disputes by releasing instruction cases and setting family trial court, also pay attention on the people＇ s mediation and other non - litigation dispute resolution mechanism.