失独哀伤过程的复杂性及其特征的多样性分析

The Complexity and the Diversity of Grief Process of Parents lost Only Child

失独事件给当事人的健康和生活带来重大影响,帮助失独者走出哀伤、摆脱痛苦、回归正常生活十分迫切。西方哀伤理论对认识失独哀伤的过程和状态有一定的指导意义,但是并不能完全解释失独哀伤,其辅导方法对失独者的哀伤调适作用有限,在失独哀伤早期,如果采用西方哀伤辅导方法可能使失独者受到二次伤害。失独哀伤过程比其他丧亲哀伤过程更长、更复杂,失独哀伤表现出特征的多样性和叠加性。失独哀伤辅导和调适需要遵循其特有规律,采取有针对性的措施。

Loss only child has a significant impact on the health and life of their parents. Helping those who lose their only child to be out of the pain and get out of the trouble then return to normal life has become the consensus of all sectors of the community. The research found that the western theory of grief counselinghas certain guiding significance on those who lost only child, but by simply copying the Western grief counseling skill has a limited role, especially in the early grief counseling on parents who lost only child . It may lead to second damage while we provide improper grief counseling. The grief process of loss only child is more complex than that of the other grief, and there are some diversitychar- acteristics of the grief. Grief counseling for parents who lost only child should follow the law and char- acteristics of grief and take targeted measurements.