抗逆力视角下目睹父母冲突青年的应对研究

Research on the coping of young adults witnessing parental conflict from the perspective of resilience

本研究基于抗逆力视角,从青年自身角度,探讨他们在父母冲突的家庭关系下遇到的困难及其如何应对和调试。研究采用目的抽样法,运用半结构访谈的方式,深入访谈了五位曾目睹父母冲突的青年。研究发现,目睹父母冲突给子女身体、性格、人际关系、恋爱婚姻、与父母关系等方面带来挑战;个体能够努力应对父母冲突带来的挑战,应对方式呈明显的阶段性特征,即早年更多被动、单一的应对方式(如哭泣、简单的劝说、回避等),随年龄的增大,会表现出更主动、多元和更具能动性的应对方式,包括对父母冲突本身、家庭关系的应对和协助改善,如更灵活的调节和劝说、帮助父母把引发冲突的事情解决等,还包括对于家庭冲突带给自己的影响和困难的觉察和应对。

The present study was based on the perspective of resilience,and investigated what difficulties youths having witnessed parental conflict met and how they dealt with difficulties and adjusted themselves.5 participants were enrolled using a purposive sampling method and were deeply interviewed via semistructured interviews. The study found witnessing parental conflict affected children's physical health,personality,interpersonal relationship,the establishment of intimate relationship and marriage,and the relationship with parents,while individuals could work hard to cope with the challenges and the coping style showed obvious stage characteristics: There were more passive and simple coping styles(such as crying,simple persuasion,avoidance and so on)when they were young and they would show more active,pluralistic and initiative coping styles with the increase of age,including the response and mediation to parental conflict,awareness and response of the difficulties brought by parental conflict.