大学生失恋的处置策略

On How to Help College Students Getting over Breakups

个性不合、时间长了情感变淡、两地分隔、毕业后的去向不定、家庭反对等是大学生失恋的主要原因,失恋与大学生心理不成熟、恋爱观存在偏差也有关联。帮助大学生形成正确的恋爱观、引导大学生制定适合个人发展的职业生涯规划、关注大学生的心理健康、开展生命观教育、建立完备的预警系统等是高校辅导员处理大学生失恋事件的较好策略。

Ending of relationships among college students is mainly caused by personality conflict, thefading of passion, physical distance, uncertainty of future and objection from family. They are also re-lated to the students＇ immature psychology and their incorrect view of love. It is very important forcollege advisors to not only help students make right career plans but also help them form a correctperspective on love and life. Much attention should be paid to students＇ mental health and a completeearly warning system should be set up to help students deal with breakups.