论“城市新家庭”早期育儿观

Early Child-rearing of New Urban Family

目前,二十世纪八九十年代出生的人逐渐成为年轻父母的主体,由于他们本身多为独生子女,且在城市中成长,因为形成了"城市新家庭"。家庭是早期儿童教育的主要场所,其中父母是最重要的教育者角色,"城市新家庭"的父母对此深感认同,但是在早期育儿方面也存在着盲目性、低效性及表象性的问题。因此,"城市新家庭"父母需要树立科学的育儿观,做到因材施教释放儿童天性、注重规矩和爱的统一以及家庭关系与家庭教育的统一,才能促进儿童更好地成长。

At present,the person who were born after 1980 and 1990 become the body of parents. Most of them are only child and grow up in the city so that they formed ＂new urban family＂. The family is the main place of early childhood education and the parents become the main role of educators. Although＂new urban family＂pay more attention to early childhood education,there is still blindness,inefficiency and presentational problems. However,the demands of modern society have changed greatly which required parents to set up a scientific view of child-rearing. Parents should to teach children in accordance with their aptitude,focus in the unity of etiquette and love and family relationship with family education so as to help children better growth.