面对高考压力,家长如何为孩子做好心理疏导

How Can Parents Conduct Psychological Consultation for their Children under the Pressure of National College Entrance Examination

一年一度的高考备受考生家长的关注,很多家长看到孩子备考压力大,很辛苦,总想为他们做点什么,想和他们一起备战高考,但是由于方法不当,常常事与愿违,越帮孩子压力越大、越紧张。根据多年为高三考生及家长做心理辅导的经验,总结家长在备考期间出现的"好心办坏事"的类型,反思这些类型表现,给家长如何在备考期间为孩子做好心理疏导提供一些参考性建议。

Every year, with the National College Entrance Examination approaching, all the parents will pay much attention to it. Seeing their children make great efforts and are under great stress, most of parents try to do something for their children, which can contribute to their preparation for the exam. However, because of their wrong ways, the things turn out against their wishes. The more they do,the more nervous their children are. This essay classifies the types of “ the things turn out against wishes” during the period of preparing for the examination according to the author’s experience of years of psychological consultation. By reflecting on “ the things a-gainst wishes”, the essay gives the parents some constructive advice on how to relieve their children psychologically in the exam prepa-ration period.