古器合尺度 树人论分寸

On the Scale of Education

父母是教育孩子的第一责任人,在孩子的成长过程中扮演着不可替代的角色,现今社会存在家庭教育越位、错位和失位三种教育不当现象。管得太多,爱得太溺体现为教育越位,影响孩子独立能力的发展;教育的不适时和不适当体现为教育错位,这种教育不能真正解决本质问题,达不到教育的目的;孩子成长过程中的缺席与失职体现为教育失位,缺乏父母的爱与陪伴,孩子受到的伤害是无法弥补的。本文在分析这三种不平衡教育的基础上提出四点建议,希望父母把握爱的分寸和尺度,不断地学习,更好地言传身教,与孩子一同成长和进步。

As the first responsible persons to educate children,parents play an irreplaceable role in the growth of children. In to-day＇s society, there are three kinds of educational misconductsoffside, misplacement and dislocation. Too much control and toomuch love is reflected in the offside of education, affecting thedevelopment of children＇s independent ability; the ill-time andinappropriateness of education is reflected in the misplacement ofeducation, and this education can not really solve the essentialproblem and achieve the purpose of education; the absence anddereliction of duty during the growth of children is reflected in theloss of education, as the harm caused by the lack of parental loveand companionship is irreparable. Based on the analysis of thesethree kinds of unbalanced education, this paper puts forward foursuggestions, hoping that parents can grasp the scale of love andcontinue to learn, so as to better educate their children by per-sonal example, and grow and progress together with their chil-dren.