福建女大学生婚恋观存在的问题与对策

The Existing Problems and the Countermeasures of the Marriage Views among Female College Students in Fujian

通过定义分析、调查法以及系统分析法,调查发现当前福建女大学生婚恋观存在较为普遍、盲目的暖男情结,具体表现为倾向以父爱作为参照标准、付出和索取关系失衡以及对自己和他人要求不对等的现象。女大学生过度暖男情结的原因在于受社会思潮和影视作品以及原生家庭环境的影响,尚未建立科学合理的婚恋观。提出女大学生树立正确婚恋观的关键在于培养女大学生独立自主的品质,引导她们形成健康、独立的人格。

Through the analysis of the definition,literature review and empirical research,it is found that the female students are more common to have blind warm guy complex,the performance is attach great importance to asking for others but paying lightly,moreover,having,different requirements of each others standards.The reasons of female students over warm guy complex lies in the influence of social thought,film and television works and the female college students are lack the ability of independence.There are still not yet established a scientific and reasonable view of love and marriage.The key for female college students to establish a correct concept of marriage is to cultivate the independent quality of female college students,guiding them to form a healthy,independent personality.