林徽因徐志摩“恋情”考辨

An Investigation into the Rumored Romantic Love of LIN Hi-ying and XU Zhi-mo

人云亦云、以讹传讹的林徽因、徐志摩“恋情”,其实只是徐志摩的单恋,而林徽因始终止步于真挚动人的友情。林徽因同时代众多友人,如陈岱孙、冰心、陈意,以及林徽因的至交费慰梅也均予否认。上世纪20年代初徐志摩热恋林徽因之际,一封林徽因之父林长民致徐志摩的信函,是直接否认林徽因对徐志摩有恋情的难得材料。更有林徽因本人于抗战期间致沈从文信,忆及她英伦时期的留学生活,亦是佐证。可作证的还有林徽因致胡适信。

The wrongly informed romantic love of Lin Hui-ying and Xu Zhi-mo proved to the unrequited love by the latter > And Lin Hui-ying had all along kept sincere friendship with Xu Zhi-mo and many her contemporaries such as Chern Dai-sun, Xie Bin-ying, Chen Yi as well as Fei Wei-mei, her intimate friend negated ythe romance of the two.In 1920s when Xu was heaping his passionate affection on Lin, a letter from the latter' s father was a direct evidence for denying the romance. Other proof includes Lin' s letters to Shen Cong-wen and Hu Shi and her memories on overseas life in Britain.