“怀旧风潮”影响下的大学生恋爱观

The College Students' Attitude towards Love under the Influence of “Unrest of Nostalgia”

怀旧风潮是反映特定时期内社会中一定数量的人对于逝去的青春岁月的怀念的一种思想潮流,多伴随着对当前境况的不满与对年少时光的虚幻美化,具有社会历史性、群体趋同性、症候象征性和功利机动性的特征。怀旧风潮给大学生恋爱观带来了下述挑战:恋爱危机感持续得到强化、真实发生的青春历史在虚拟历史幻象中受到消解和遮蔽、理性的反思与判断被扭曲的事件陈述所取代和对大学生道德责任意识的弱化。基于上述问题,应发挥高校各类资源对恋爱观引导的合力作用,发挥兼具真实性与反思性的文艺作品的引导作用,发挥特色婚恋教育课程的助力作用和发挥社会、学校和家庭环境的熏陶作用。

Unrest of Nostalgia means a certain number of people in the community within a specific periodexpressing an idea of the trend of nostalgia for lost youth years, mostly accompanied by dissatisfaction with the currentsituation and young unreal moments landscaping. With four characteristic: social historic, groups of convergence,symptoms of symbolic, mobility of utilitarianism, it had a negative impact on the college students’ attitude towardslove, including crisis continued to strengthen, the real history in the history of virtual illusion of youth by digestion andshielding, rational reflection and judgment replaced by distorting events statement and the weakening of the collegestudents’ moral responsibility consciousness. Guidance of students out of the nostalgic countermeasures including:various kinds of resources of colleges and universities should be utilized to love, using literatures and arts that bothauthenticity and reflective to guide, exerting the assistance role of various kinds of special marriage education coursesand the influence of the society, school and family environment.