寂寞的消解:失独家庭重构研究

Resolve Loneliness: A Study of the Reconstruction of Losing the One-Child Family

在中国人的传统家庭观念中,家庭构建完成之后的头等大事就是传宗接代,养儿防老这一观念在很多中国人的头脑中更是根深蒂固。孩子不仅是精神的寄托,更是在核心家庭的家庭结构中扮演着重要的角色,是家庭结构稳定的基础。"失独"这一困境,不仅使核心家庭的家庭结构被破坏,也使家庭关系受到严重的冲击,从而严重损害了家庭功能。家庭关系的重构要通过恢复家庭功能来实现。基于社会支持干预模式,通过优势视角挖掘"失独者"的自身潜能,让他们自发性发挥自我在家庭中的核心主体作用,主动从家庭内部重构其家庭;与此同时,社会关系网络和国家以及社会大环境的支持对于失独家庭的重构也是非常重要的。

Among Chinese traditional family values,the successor to the family was the top priority after the family was established.Getting grown-up children to take care of themselves is something taken for granted in many Chinese people's minds.Therefore,not only is the child's sustenance of the parents'spirit,but also the basis of the stable family structure.Children are very important to the family structure of the nuclear family.“Losing the only child”not only ruined the family structure of the nuclear family,but also severely affected the family relations,which severely damaged the family's function.Reconstruction of family relationships is achieved through the restoration of family functions.Based on the model of social support intervention,this study explores the potential of“people who have lost their only child”through superior perspectives and gives them voluntary play to their core role in the family and take the initiative to take measures to build their family relationships from within the family At the same time,it is also important to reconstruct the relationship between social networks and state and society support for“families that have lost only child”.