清代陈尔士家书婚姻家庭伦理美摭谈

On Marriage and Family Ethical Beauty of Chen Ershi's Home Letters

家书涵盖了婚姻家庭生活中的喜怒哀乐和衣食住行,承载着华夏民族生生不息的亲缘文化,维系着家人间的亲情,记录着时代的变迁,是民间优秀文化的组成部分。家人间的私语言说、尽情倾诉,是家书的最大特点,其审美价值集中体现在真、善、美的三位一体。清代浙江余杭闺秀陈尔士寄给丈夫及儿子的二十八封家书,以平铺简洁的叙事、朴实真挚的感情深深打动读者,集中反映了当时的婚姻家庭伦理美。陈氏家书婚姻家庭伦理美集中体现在夫妻之伦、母子之伦和妻妾之伦三个方面。

The home letter is a part of the brilliant folk culture,which covers the passions and basic necessities of life in the marriage and family life,carries a never-endingblood culture of our Chinese nation,and maintains family affection and records the changes of time.The greatest feature of home letters is having heart-to-heart talking and pouring out freely among family members.The aesthetic value embodied in truth,goodness,beauty of three-in-one.The twenty-eight home letters which were written by Chen Ershi,a lady in Zhejiang Yuhang in Qing dynasty,were sent to her husband and son.Readers were deeply moved by its tile concise narrative,simple and sincere emotion.Meanwhile,the home letters reflect the marriage and family beauty at that time.The three aspects which are between couples,mother and son,husband and wife are concentrated refection of Chen’s marriage and family ethical beauty.