《红楼梦》贾府家庭教育问题探究

Research on the Education of Family JIA in “A Dream of The Red Mansions”

《红楼梦》贾府不良的家庭教育,是贾家儿孙一代不如一代的重要原因之一。贾府错误的传统教育价值观,对男性要求重功名、轻德育,对女性则认为女子无才便是德;贾府不当的教育方式,要么放任不管,要么粗暴、要么溺爱;贾府恶劣的家庭教育环境,父母不能以身作则;这些不良的教育疏忽了对个人的性格培养、品格培养,使子孙们缺乏应有的社会责任感和家庭责任感,最终贾家只能落得后继无人,彻底败落的下场。以《红楼梦》贾府不良的家庭教育为鉴,对当代教育中帮助家长充分认识家庭教育的重要性,使其对孩子进行良好的家庭教育,有强烈的现实意义。

The poor education of Family JIA in "A Dream of The Red Mansions" is one of the important reasons why Jia’s children are not as good as last generation. Jia’s erroneous traditional educational values require more men’s fame and fortune than moral education, while women’s incompetence is morality. Jia’s improper education is either leave no matter or rude or spoil. Under Jia’s poor family educational environment, parents can’t be the good examples. These bad educations neglect the cultivation of personal morality and personality, which makes their next generation lack the sense of social responsibility and family responsibility. In the end, Family Jia can only be completely defeated.Taking the bad family education of Family Jia in "A Dream of The Red Mansions" as a lesson, help parents fully understand the importance of family education in contemporary education, also make them to give a good family education for their children.