游戏力理念的养育启示

Implication of the Idea of Playful Parenting for Education

每个家庭都会存在养育难题。由于儿童的表达方式特殊,父母通常将他们的一些需求表达理解为无理取闹,而通过游戏的方式与孩子交流,进行情感联结,能够达到良好的育儿效果。这种用游戏的方式去与儿童沟通的能力称为游戏力。基于游戏力的理念,在家庭养育中运用游戏的方式与儿童交流,可以及时准确地“翻译”需求,由浅及深地“建立”联结,简单易懂地“表达”支持,同时,父母应当坚持“角色转换、适当身体接触、及时自我调整”等原则,帮助儿童健康快乐地成长。

Every family has its educational problems, and for their special ways of expression, children’s demands are considered as troubles out of nothing by their parents at times. Yet, parents can communicate with their children by way of games to achieve a good eff ect of education. The way of gaming and the ability of communicating with children are called playful parenting. Based on the idea, parents can adopt the method of gaming to communicate with their children in family so that they can immediately translate children’s accurate demands, build the connections little by little, and simply express their supports. Meanwhile, parents should follow the principles of role switching, proper body touching, and timely self-adjustment to help children grow healthily and happily.