村庄地位竞争、进城策略与青年“啃老”常态化

Village Status Competition, Urbanization Strategy and the Normalization of “Parent-relier”

农村"啃老"现象引起了广泛的社会关注,但学界多聚焦于消极的一面,忽视了其积极的功能与意义,缺乏对"啃老"常态化的理解。基于在苏南C镇的田野调查,发现在村庄阶层分化的背景下,"啃老"表现为一种具有发展性的积极意义,是实现家庭地位竞争的策略行动。父辈受"家庭"认同观念转变、村庄话语体系变革以及人生价值和意义实现等因素的影响,以既有情感又有理性的复杂心态积极主动融入子代家庭中,在一个"家"的范围内,将"啃老"逐渐合理化。

The phenomenon of "parent-relier" in the countryside is increasingly widespread and arouses widespread social concern. From the parents’ perspective, based on the field investigation of C town in southern Jiangsu province, we found that under the background of the differentiation of peasant and the fierce competition in village status, the "parent-relier" is a kind of developing "parent-relier", which is a strategic for the family common goal. In this process. it is affected by the return of the identity of "family", and the change of the parent’s behavioral logic, and the construction of the value and meaning of the parents’ life.Parents proactively integrates themselves into their children’s families with complex emotions of both emotion and rationality,and they are willing to accept "parent-relier". And within a "family", two generations gradually make the "parentrelier" rationalization.