亲密与隔阂:大龄二孩家庭同胞关系及其调适

Intimacy and Gap:Research on the Sibling Relationship and Its Adaptation of Two Children Families with Large Age Gap

随着“全面二孩”政策的实施,客观上产生了很多大龄二孩家庭,其同胞关系日益受到社会的广泛关注。对大龄二孩家庭中的同胞关系进行问卷调查,研究结果表明,同胞手足之间包含着亲密和温暖,但同时由于同胞年龄差距较大,会带来心理适应障碍和个人继续社会化的时代差异,易产生同胞隔阂。同胞结构特征、家庭因素中的父母婚姻质量、亲子关系和差别对待都对同胞关系产生了显著影响。文章最后提出了调适同胞关系的对策建议,以促进同胞关系向积极方向发展。

The implementation of universal two children policy brought about a large number of two children families with large age gap in China and the sibling relation in such families come to be an increasingly public issue. Based on the data from a survey of sibling relationship,this paper tries to looking into the sibling relationship of two children families with large age gap by the indicators system of intimacy and gap. The findings show that the intimacy based on the natural sibling relation are facing mental adaption disorder and impacted by individual’s continual socialization caused by the social differences caused of large age gap of two children. Generally speaking the Characteristics of sibling structure,parental marital quality,parent-child relations,and differential treatment all have significant impact on sibling relations. Some suggestions on how to adjust the sibling relations are put forward to promote sibling intimacy.