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亲爱的“老爹”:我很难和我11岁的儿子沟通除非逼不得已,否则他完全没有兴趣花时间跟我在一起。我如何同他建立比较好的关系?答:随着孩子跌跌撞撞地步人青少年阶段,大多数父母都面临一模一样的问题。坏消息是,孩子惹上麻烦(有时是很严重或足以改变人生的麻烦)的大部分情况,都发生在疏离父母、向同伴寻求引导的时候。所幸,你还是有许多方法可以和孩子建立感情的。以下简单举四个例子。
Dear Mr.Dad:I am having difficulty communicating with my 11-year-old son.He is completely uninterested in spending any more time with me than he has to.What can I do to build a better relationship with[him]?Most parents struggle with exactly this issue as their children lurch forward into their adolescent years.The bad news is that most of the opportunities to get into trouble(sometimes serious or life-changing trouble)happen when children distance themselves from parents and look to their peers for guidance.Fortunately,there are still plenty of ways to bond with your children.Here are just four examples.
