把提问权还给孩子

Return the Right to Ask Questions to Children

"提问"是一种教育实践方式,应该经常向孩子提问。孩子从父母那里得到问题后,会为了找到答案而不断思考,同时也会为了应对父母的意见而费尽苦心。在这样的过程中,不仅培养了思考的能力,还自然而然地获得了很多智慧。在讨论的过程中,有输也有赢,却没有对与错,因为讨论的目的并不是为了寻找正确答案。那些不善于表达自己想法和意见的孩子,在成年之后,大多数不能有逻辑地进行交流。

"Asking questions" is one of the most important topics worthy of practice in education, and teachers should often ask children questions. After getting a question from their parents, children will continue to think in order to find the answer, and will also work hard based on their parents’ opinions. In this process, children’s thinking ability is cultivated, so that they will improve their intelligence naturally. In the process of discussion, there are both wins and losses, but there is no right or wrong, because the purpose is not to find the correct answer. Most children who are not good at expressing their thoughts and opinions cannot communicate logically after adulthood.