道德评价标准的人我分离现象剖析

On the Phenomenon of Choosing Different Moral Criteria to Evaluate Yourself and Others

当今社会出现了一种较为普遍的道德评价标准的人我分离现象,即评价他人用较为理想的社会道德认知标准,而评价自己则用相对现实的个人道德认知标准,这带来了许多消极后果。造成这种状况的根本原因,是道德的理想化与人们行为现实化之间的冲突。要解决此问题,我们在提升人们行为道德性的同时,还得让理想道德向现实有所下放,即在改进思维方式、承认人性基本事实的基础上,建构全面、合理的道德认知系统,以提高道德评价原则的可渗透性,最终实现知行统一基础上的道德规范和道德引领。

In today’s society,there is a common phenomenon of separation between others and yourself in moral evaluation criteria,that is,evaluating others with relatively ideal social moral cognitive criteria,while evaluating oneself with relatively realistic personal moral cognitive criteria,which has brought about many negative consequences.The fundamental reason for this situation is the conflict between the idealization of morality and the reality of people’s behavior.To solve this problem,we should not only improve people’s behavior morality,but also let ideal morality devolve to reality.That is,on the basis of improving the way of thinking and recognizing the basic facts of human nature,we should construct a comprehensive and reasonable moral cognitive system to improve the permeability of moral evaluation principles,we should ultimately realize the moral norms and moral guidance based on the unity of moral knowledge and practice.