摘要
秘密有碍健康我在中西部小镇长大,那里普遍的生活哲学是只谈愉快的事,必要时还要保守秘密,就为了避免谈不开心的事。这意味着,别人冒犯你时保持沉默、极少谈论负面情绪、不必要时也要微笑。这也代表绝对不公开任何不光彩的事,让人夜不成寐的隐私秘密尤其不行。
I grew up in a M idwestern town where the prevailing wisdom was to only talk about what was pleasant and to keep secrets,if necessary,to make that happen.This meant staying mum when som eone offended you,rarely vocalizing negative feelings and smiling a tad more than is necessary.
