调侃话语的关系构建:人际和谐的趋同性和趋异性

Construction of the Relationship of Teasing: Convergence and Divergence of Interpersonal Concordance

调侃所体现的是一种策略性的人际关系,反映了"认同关系"和"超越关系"的相互矛盾。趋同性是调侃认知的心理基础,趋异性是调侃认知的负向绩效。调侃的玩笑取向意味着心理趋同性反应,体现的是关系的连接和强化;调侃的冒犯性取向意味着心理趋异性反应,体现的是关系的疏离和弱化。

Teasing implies strategic interpersonal relationships, which embodies contradiction between identity relation and transcendental relation. Psychological convergence is the basis of teasing cognition while psychological divergence means negative performance. Playful orientation of teasing demonstrates connection and strengthening of the interpersonal relationship whereas offensive orientation results in alienation and weakening of interpersonal relationships.