从爱情视角看贾宝玉的成长

On Jia Baoyu’s Growth from the Perspective Love

贾宝玉不是最初便将林黛玉视为唯一的爱恋对象,其爱情选择随着年龄增长和阅历丰富,呈现出鲜明的阶段性特征。童年阶段,贾宝玉被妄情和肉欲所障,天真地希望可以得到所有年轻女子的爱情,是对情的初步探索;青年阶段,有所成熟,认识到爱情具有排他性,并应基于共同的兴趣爱好和思想认识,并痴情于林黛玉,生死相恋;成人阶段,贾宝玉反对孤守主义,在林黛玉死后,将情感转移到薛宝钗身上,对情孜孜以求却终归于幻灭。

Initially,Jia Baoyu doesn't take Lin Daiyu as the only lover;his love choice presents the distinct characteristic of stage with the growth of age and the rich of experience:in his childhood,he,who is blinded by fause emotions and carnal desires,naively hopes to be loved by all the young women,which is the preliminary exploratory period;in his puberty,he falls in love with Lin Daiyu until death and he becomes more mature with a new understanding of love,knowing love is exclusive and based on common interest and thought;in his adult stage,he is opposed to isolationism,and he transfers his emotions to Xue Baochai after Lin Daiyu's death;however,he pursues love unremittingly and ends in disillusionment.