儒家“四书”与中华家风

Confucian“The Four Books”and Chinese Family Style

儒家“四书”是中国传统文化的核心经典,在以“四书”为代表的儒家思想浸润之下,造就了具有中华文明特色的中华家风。中华家风非仅是一家一户之门风,由个体而家庭而国族天下,家国一体的思想与组织结构,使得家风作为勾连个体与国家的中间环节而具有重要的地位,家风决定着国风。家国一体奠定了家风建设的最终方向。家风建设的具体抓手,是以“礼”为中心的关于成人与成长的教育。“礼”强调与规范人的社会性存在,进而立人成人,以致成就大人君子。家风建设的精神支柱,以孝与悌为基底,从而认识人的价值,进而走向广泛普遍的爱与敬。家风建设的基本立足点,是从个体的正心修心开始,使得功夫真正落于实地。

“The four books”of Confucianism is the core of Chinese traditional culture.Under the infiltration of Confucianism represented by“The four books”,it has created the Chinese family style with Chinese civilization characteristics.The Chinese family style is not just one family style.The thought and organizational structure of the integration of family and state make the family style play an important role as a link between the individual and the country.The family style determines the national style.The integration of family and country has laid the ultimate direction of family style construction.The specific focus of family style construction is the education of adults and growth centered on“etiquette”.“Etiquette”emphasize and regulate the social existence of human beings,and make human beings grow up,so as to achieve an gentlemen.The spiritual pillar of the construction of family style is based on filial piety and fraternity,and people’s value is recognized,and then love and respect are widespread.The basic foothold of family style construction is to start from the individual’s heart cultivation and make the Kung Fu really fall on the ground.