“00 后”大一学生人际关系现状、成因及解决建议

The Status Quo,Causes and Solutions of Interpersonal Relations among"Post-00s"College Freshman

该文以50名因人际关系问题接受心理辅导的“00后”大学新生为研究样本,在梳理他们面临的三类主要人际关系——亲子关系、师生关系、朋友关系的基础上,总结他们在人际交往过程中面临的社交羞怯、社交回避、交往方式失当等问题,并分析产生这些问题的原因,即原生家庭养育失当、缺乏人际沟通技巧、网络暴力等,提出以家庭为单位开展父母与学生共同辅导的大学生心理健康辅导理念,以从根源上解决问题。

This paper takes 50"post-00s"college freshmen who have received psychological counseling due to interpersonal problems as a research sample,and summarizes the three main types of interpersonal relationships they face,namely,parent-child relationship,teacher-student relationship,and friend relationship.They face social shyness,social avoidance,improper communication styles and other problems in these interpersonal relationships.This paper then analyzes the reasons for these problems,that is,improper parenting in the native family,lack of interpersonal communication skills,online violence,etc.,and proposes the psychological counseling concept based on the cooperation between parents and freshmen themselves,so as to solve the problems thoroughly.