马克思与燕妮的爱情对当代青年恋爱观的启示

Enlightenment of Marx and Yanni’s Love Views on Contemporary Youth

马克思与燕妮的自由恋爱一直被传颂,从相识到相知,从友谊到爱情,从七年的异地恋到携手相伴一生,他俩的爱情在对世俗偏见的积极反抗和对未来生活的追求中愈发深厚。他俩的恋爱呈现了在“两解两合”中确立爱情,在历经考验中诠释爱情,并在完善自我中定位爱情和在思考体悟中理解爱情的特点。这些特点折射出青年马克思与燕妮对恋爱的认识和思考,尽管其中有些认识不成熟,但仍然值得当今青年学习和借鉴。引导青年在恋爱中,树立正确的择偶标准,保证爱情长久发展;重视代际沟通交流,促进恋爱的健康顺利;立足现实中的爱情与事业、人际交往这两种基本关系去审视恋爱,让爱成为美和力量;在包容理解中,保持情感之真。

Marx and Yanni's love is more and more profound in the positive resistance to secular prejudice and the pursuit of future life.Their love shows the characteristics of establishing love in"two solutions and two combinations",interpreting love in experiencing tests,positioning love in self perfection and understanding love in thinking and understanding.These characteristics reflect young Marx and Yanni's understanding and thinking about love.Although some of them are immature,most of them are worth learning for today's youth.Their love story enlightens young people in the process of love to establish correct standards for spouse selection.It is necessary to examine love based on the two basic relationships of love,career and interpersonal communication in reality,so as to make love become beauty and strength,and to maintain the truth of emotion in tolerance and understanding.