并家婚姻下的家庭权力变迁与家庭关系理性化——以苏南农村并家现象为例

The Changes of Family Power and the Rationalization of FamilyRelations under the Merging Families Marriage——Take the Merging Families Phenomenon in Sunan Rural Village as an Example

研究旨在从双系父权的视角分析并家婚姻的实践形态及其产生的家庭权力变迁和家庭关系理性化。通过对苏南农村并家婚姻现象的经验调查和分析发现,并家实现了家庭资源的双向输入,成为支持子代家庭完成城市化和家庭再生产任务的重要保障。但并家婚姻中单向度的财产继承、姓氏继替以及双方父母对家庭完整情感满足的诉求,都形塑出双系父权结构。夫妻关系权责清晰、代际之间清晰化的财产分配规则和姓氏继替的边界明确,导致并家所形成的家庭关系理性化。在纵向代际关系上,并家使得父代权力介入到子代家庭的各个层面,造成子代对父代的依附性强、独立性弱。这不仅会消解子代的发展动力,还造成核心小家庭关系更加脆弱和不稳定。

The purpose of this study is to analyze the practical form of marriage in a dual family and the changes of family power and rationalization of family relations from the perspective of dual-line paternal power.Through the empirical investigation and analysis of the phenomenon of marriage in the rural areas of southern Jiangsu Province,it is found that the marriage in the rural areas realizes the two-way input of family resources,which became an important barrier to support the family in the city and the rebirth of the family.But the one-dimensional inheritance of wealth and property,surnames’succession and two-sided parents’demands for family integrity all shape the dual-line paternal power structure.The relationship between responsibilities clear,intergenerational narrated property distribution rule and the last name for the border clear,lead to the family relationships rationalization.In the vertical inter-generational relationship,the combination of family makes the father’s power penetrate into all levels of the children’s family,which makes the children have strong attachment to the father and weak independence.This will not only eliminate the development motive force of the offspring,but also make the family relationship of the nucleation center more brittle,weak and unstable.