青年女性的亲密关系冲突及家庭生活

Intimacy Conflict and Family Lives of Young Women

发生在夫妻之间的亲密关系冲突是洞察女性家庭生活的有趣而关键的窗口。该文通过观察80后90后这一代年轻女性在夫妇式家庭中的矛盾,得到了有关女性家庭境遇的两条线索:其一,从社会性别的维度看,年轻代女性在性别气质与性别实践之间的错位频度和程度颇高,这意味着女性的家庭角色越发自由与多元;其二,考察小家庭与家庭网的关系,年轻代女性在构筑夫妻家庭和父母家庭之间的联结时,拥有更大的积极性与权力。年轻代女性所经历的亲密关系冲突和家庭生活显示出女性的力量与策略。

Intimacy conflict between couples, which is interesting and key, gives family life visibility. With reform and opening-up as the time point, based on observing older women and young women, it reveals that conflicts in conjugal family tell us two clues on family revolution. On the one hand, transplacements between gender temperament and gender practice of young women are more prominent, which means family roles of women are more and more free and multiple. On the other hand, young women have more motivations and power to establish connection within family network. The family revolution behind intimacy conflict is manifesting women’s power and tactics.