婚姻冲突的发生与干预机制研究——基于情感社会学视角的案例历时比较分析

Research on the Occurrence and Intervention Mechanism of Marital Conflict:A Diachronic Comparative Case Analysis from the Perspective of Emotional Sociology

婚姻冲突是有关家庭与社会稳定研究的重要议题。基于情感社会学视角,应用案例历时比较法研究了从恋爱到婚姻转变的冲突机制及其后的婚姻干预机制。研究发现,从恋爱到婚姻,期望状态从“实现”转变为“无法实现”,这一期望状态的变换唤醒了高强度的消极情感。强烈的消极情感体验对个体来说是痛苦的,会触发个体的自我保护模式,抑制消极情感。消极情感被抑制而持续增强,因而激活防御机制——置换和归因,将消极情感转化为愤怒,愤怒再次被抑制后进入恶性循环,并激活防御策略——选择性知觉、否认他人和(欲)退出情境自我保护,威胁婚姻关系。而外界干预因素的介入调节则使期望重新实现,婚姻关系因此得以修复。揭示婚姻冲突的发生与干预机制,为维护家庭与社会秩序提供了一种思路。

Marital conflict is an important issue in the study of family and social stability.Based on the perspective of Emotional Sociology,this paper applies the diachronic comparative case analysis method to analyze the conflict mechanism from love to marriage and the subsequent marital intervention mechanism.The study found that the expectation state changed from realization to inability,thus,arousing high-intensity negative emotions from love to marriage.The intense negative emotion experience is painful for the individual,so the individual will open the self-protection mode and restrain the negative emotion.Negative emotions are inhibited and continuously strengthened,thus activate the defense mechanisms:replacement and attribution,turn negative emotions into anger,which is once again inhibited into a vicious circle,and activate defense strategies:selective perception,denial of others and(wanted)withdrawal from situations for self-protection,threatening marital relationships.The intervention and adjustment of external intervention factors make expectations come true again and the marriage relationship can be repaired.The revelation of the occurrence and intervention mechanism of marital conflict will be helpful to provide reference for the maintenance of family and social order.