交往行为视域中的亲子冲突及其化解

Parent-child Conflict and Its Resolution from the Perspective of Communicative Behavior

亲子冲突是家庭生活中不可避免的现象,一直困扰着很多家长,是亟待解决的家庭和社会问题。交往行为理论为剖析亲子冲突问题提供了全新的视角。亲子冲突实际上是一种交往行为,亲子间交往的地位不平等、交往背景知识的不同、交往未达成理解共识以及交往缺乏沟通与交流是造成亲子冲突的主要原因。据此,建立亲子交往的主体间性关系,创设亲子交往的理想话语环境,构建亲子平等交往的规则规范,转变亲子和谐交往的方式方法是化解亲子冲突的重要对策。

Parent-child conflict is an inevitable in family life,which has been troubling many parents and is an urgent family and social problem.The theory of communicative behavior provides a new perspective for the analysis of parent-child conflict which is a kind of communication behavior.The reasons for parent-child conflict are the unequal communication status,the different communication background knowledge,the lack of understanding consensus and the lack of communication and communication.Therefore,the countermeasures to the parent-child conflict are to establish the relationship between the subjects of parent-child communication,to create the ideal discourse environment of parent-child communication,to construct the rules and norms of parent-child equal communication,and to transform the ways and methods of parent-child harmonious communication.