适婚青年的婚姻心理胜任力研究

Research on Marriage Psychological Competence of Youth at Marrying Age

婚姻家庭是个人成长、家庭稳定、社会和谐以及国家发展的重要基点。适婚青年要拥有幸福婚姻需要具备基本的婚姻心理胜任力。婚姻心理胜任力指适婚个体在建立和保持婚姻关系中应具备的基本心理特征和技能。婚姻心理胜任力的理论构想是在现有婚恋研究成果基础上,借鉴传统胜任力和积极心理学理论构建而成的,其核心要素是心理离乳能力,还包括四个独立要素:正常的亲密动机、开放的认知态度、稳定的情绪和维护亲密关系的社会技能。婚姻心理胜任力理论可以有效解释青年婚恋问题的心理因素,为高校婚恋教育、适婚青年婚前教育、婚姻问题咨询与治疗及离婚调解提供指导。

Marriage and family are important bases for personal growth,family stability,social harmony and national development.To acquire a happy marriage,it is necessary for young people to have basic marriage psychological competence.Marriage psychological competence refers to the basic psychological characteristics and skills that a individual should have in establishing and maintaining a marriage relationship.The theoretical conception of marital psychological competence is based on the existing research results of marriage and love,drawing lessons from the traditional competence and positive psychology theory.The core element is the ability of psychological weaning,consisting of four independent elements:normal intimacy motivation,open cognitive attitude,stable emotion and social skills to maintain intimacy.The theory of marriage psychological competence can effectively explain the psychological causes of young people’s marriage and love problems,and provide guidance for marriage and love education in colleges and universities,premarital education of young people,marriage counseling and treatment and divorce mediation.