家长的“两难”境地:基于流动儿童情感问题

Thoughts Triggered by the Emotional Problems of Migrant Children:the“Dilemma”of Parents in Modern Society

家长与子女间的情感互动是两者间建立联系和密切关系的桥梁与纽带,它是构建良好家庭关系的重要组成部分。我国现代化进程中“家”的流动日渐成为重要的流动形式。一方面促使流动儿童规模日益增大,另一方面也使流动儿童家长陷入工作投入与子女情感投入的两难境地。流动儿童情感问题在一定程度上反映了现代社会家长群体中普遍存在的困境,我国家长与子女情感收获如何“反现代化”发展成为一个值得思索的问题。

The family plays the most important and basic role in the growth of children.The emotional interaction between parents and children is the bridge and bond that establishes and close relationship between the two.It is an important part of building a good family relationship.With the increase of mobility in the process of social modernization in China,the mobility of“homes”has gradually become an important form of mobility.On one hand,this has promoted the increasing scale of migrant children;on the other hand,it has also caused the parents of migrant children to fall into a dilemma between work engagement and their children’s emotional input.To a certain extent,the emotional problems of migrant children reflect the predicament of parents in modern society.How to“anti-modernize”the emotional gains of parents and children in China has become a question worth pondering.