摘要
建立健康关系的技巧和一些实用的日常运动指南人与人之间:为什么试图改变别人总会适得其反如果你百试不得其法,会不会是因为你正在试图改变别人?换个方式,想想你会如何激发出他人的优点。也许你希望继子停止吸毒,或者你希望女儿在职场上能挺身面对上司。既然我们都知道直接对抗有时很难,那我们需要退一步试试其他战术。
If you're hitting your head against a wall,could it be that you're trying to change someone?Instead,think in terms of how you can bring out the bestin someone.Maybe you want your stepson to stop taking drugs.Or you want your daughter to stand up to her supervisor atwork.
