农村光棍问题的表现、成因与应对——基于关陇地区的考察

Manifestation,Causes and Countermeasures of the Problem of Single Men in Rural Areas--Based on the Investigation of Guanlong Region

农村光棍是一种现象或者状态,趋势无非两种:一种是经过外在帮助和自身努力完成婚配而脱离光棍群体,可以称之为“暂时光棍”,应对方法是如何帮助其组建家庭,并有效维系其婚姻存在,避免“重返光棍”;另一种是客观环境恶劣加自身条件不足,实现婚配几率趋近于零,不得不独身终生,可以称其为“既成光棍”,应对方法是引导其重新确定生活目标,帮助其融入乡村社会,在社会保障、养老等方面提供帮助,保证其单身背景下顺利且有意义的生存与生活。

Single men in rural areas are a phenomenon or state.The future development of these single men in rural areas is nothing more than two:one is that they use external help and their own efforts to complete the marriage and leave the single group.These single men can be called“temporary bachelors”.For such single men,the coping strategy is how to help them form families,effectively maintain their marriage,and prevent them from“returning to the bachelor state”.Another situation is that due to the harsh objective environment and insufficient personal conditions,the probability of achieving marriage and mating for some single men approaches zero,and they have to remain single for a lifetime.These men can be referred to as“established bachelors”.For such single men,the response method is to guide them to redefine their life goals,help them integrate into rural society,provide assistance in social security,elderly care,and other aspects,and ensure their smooth and meaningful survival and life in a single background.