摘要
For many Western men who end up getting married to Chinese women,things are wonderful at first,but can suddenly change.Sometimes it's immediately after the marriage.Sometimes after the first child is born.Sometimes it's after the in-laws come to visit and don't leave for months.The men are left confused and bewildered.What the heck happened?Once upon a time,you would have had no clue,and end up commiserating with other shell-shocked husbands at the local foreignerbar.