摘要
For the longest time I thought that it doesn't matter where you were raised,if you're raised,by Chinese parents,you're Chinese...Let me rewind a tad first.Both my parents are Chinese,I was born in China,and grew up in the US from the age of 7.I still identify as Chinese-American.I look like everyone else here and I speak the language like everyone else(most of the time).So,it wasn't until I started dating my now husband that I realized that even if we're both Chinese and have similar shared experiences like tiger moms and studying abroad,him in the UK and me in Switzerland,things are not always the same.