梅尧臣社交表达中的自我体认:以“受赠”“见过”诗为中心

Self-Recognition in Mei Yaochen's Social Expression:Centered on Poems of"Receiving Gifts"and"Coming to Visit"

在梅尧臣大量的交际诗作中,“受赠”与“见过”两类题材因其出现频率与书写方式而值得关注。二者相通之处,在于皆记述了作者接受友人关顾之事,并触发了他的自我观照。在受赠诗中,文雅贵重之物往往引起作者“才不称物”的自愧,生活物资的分享则常使他自伤困窘。面对受赠带来的卑弱感,他又以自言心志、援引前贤等方式寻求自洽的理据和品格的确证。在见过诗中,他一面凸显贵贱之别,一面避免攀附之讥,表现出敏感的身份认知。此类作品以细节丰盈的情境化书写记录了真切的生命体验,不仅使诗歌免于应酬之作的庸常套路,更提供了探析诗人自我体认的路径,具有还原作者心灵史的独特意义。

In Mei Yaochen's numerous communicative poems,the themes of"receiving gifts"and"coming to visit"are noteworthy due to their frequency and writing style.Both of them record the author's acceptance of the care of friends and cause his self-reflection.In the poetry of"receiving gifts",the elegant and precious things often make the author feel guilty of"not deserve",while the sharing of daily necessities makes him feel embarrassed by poverty.Faced with the sense of inferiority,he also seeks explanation and maintains self-esteem by expressing his aspirations and citing the similar deeds of ancients.In the poetry of"Coming to Visit",he emphasizes the distinction in status and avoids the ridicule of attaching to persons in power,which show sensitive identity cognition.The above poetry records the life experience through detailed and contextualized writing,which not only exempt the poetry from the routine of communication,but also provide a path to explore the poet's self-recognition,so that it has a unique significance in restoring the author's spiritual history.