女性主义者:从追求平权走向行权成事

Feminists:From the Pursuit of Equal Rights to the Realizationof Power

多年前的一次性别议题研讨会上,有一年轻男性站起来抛出一个问题:“女权主义者到底要什么?”性别研究领域的一位资深前辈回答他:“你这是一个抱怨,不是一个问题。”满座皆笑,包括那位提问者,问题就此被轻轻揭过。但是,这个貌似何须问的问题,其答案并非那样昭然若揭。在各项性别平等的法律制度日趋完备的今天,女性主义者到底要什么的问题似乎并没有真正得到解答。2022年的一次线上性别研究会议上,有位高校在读女学生提出一个问题:“我将来遇到了工作家庭平衡问题怎么办?”为什么今天年轻女性还没真正进入生活,就被一种可能性吓住了?

Basedon thereflection on women'smovement and existing gender knowledge,this article suggests that what feminists want is to abandon all the mechanisms and cultures that harm women,to improve women's personality,and to move towards women's health.What they want is to leave behind the tensions,hostility and alienation between the sexes,which are based on violence and threats,and move towards a gender partnership of coexistence and co-prosperity.What they want is a rejection of social norms that are too restrictive for women,and the promotion of a societal shift from a power-structured model to a loving model,and move towards a more resilient and inclusive relationship between the individual and society.These feminist goals for women,for gender relations,and for the goal of social transformation are embedded in the women's movement,and the rearticulation and reemphasis will help the women's movement to clarify its direction and to help people to live their lives more positively.