从“断亲”到“搭子”:青年网民的社交转向与情感纠葛

From“Kinship Disconnection”to“Companion”:The Social Interaction Turns and Emotional Entanglements of Young Netizen

“断亲”和找“搭子”是社会加速、技术加速和消费加速所引发的亚文化现象,也表明青年网民在亲缘与趣缘关系方面的选择和转变,体现出当代情感史发展的新动向。“断亲”是一种空间和情感距离上的“脱嵌”,而找“搭子”可视为“断亲”之后的一种情感补充或“再嵌”行为。但是,“断亲”并不意味着传统的亲缘关系可以忽略不计,找“搭子”也并非随心所欲,且难以解决青年网民深度的精神困境。因此,我们不能陷入过度的亲情排斥和浅社交循环,避免盲目攀比“断亲”和找“搭子”,进而树立健康的家庭观、亲情观和交往观。

Breaking off kinship and taking looking for“Da Zi”are sub-cultural phenomena caused by the acceleration of society,technology and consumption,which also shows that young netizens choose and change in the relationship between kinship and interest,reflecting the new trend of contemporary emotional history development.“Breaking off kinship”is a kind of“de-embedded”in space and emotional distance,and looking for a“Da Zi”can be regarded as an emotional supplement or“re-embedded”behavior after“breaking off kinship”.However,“breaking off kinship”does not mean that the traditional kinship can be ignored,and finding a“Da Zi”is not arbitrary.It is difficult to solve the deep spiritual dilemma of young netizens.Therefore,we cannot be trapped into excessive affection and shallow social cycles,avoid blindly comparing“breaking off kinship”and finding“Da Zi”,and then establish a healthy family view,family outlook,and interaction.