柔韧的力量:中国女性在“家庭抗逆力”中的信念系统与实践策略——一个东北家族的传记社会学研究

The Power of Flexibility:The Belief System and Practical Strategies of Chinese Women in"Family Resistance"——A Biographical Sociological Study of a Northeastern Family

中国“家庭抗逆力”自主知识体系的建构,需要借鉴与扬弃西方“家庭抗逆力”理论与实务的研究成果,更需要在文化自信与文化自觉的前提下,联结传统与当下,建构符合中国社会情境的话语体系。中国女性在洞悉逆境本质、症候与向度的基础上,将逆境视为家庭成长的磨砺、家庭禀赋的再造和家庭潜力的激发,她们将此信念系统融入具体而微的生活“恒常”,在自洽的“意义世界”建构中,以柔克刚地缓解逆境对于家庭的冲击力,并助推逆境对于家庭的更新力。具体实践过程中,她们依托伦理本位为基础的家族共同体,夯实夫妻好合的伦理中轴,促进亲子互联的代际支撑,整合手足情深的亲属网络,重构义利共存的社会支持,并不断吸纳和推进关照女性的国家政策。由此,中国女性实现了从隐忍到外放、从“去我”到“有我”、从自我觉醒到全面赋能的历史性跃迁。

The construction of the independent knowledge system of"family resilience"in China requires drawing on and discarding the research results of Western theory and practice of"family resilience".It is even more necessary to connect tradition and the present under the premise of cultural confidence and cultural consciousness,and construct a discourse system that is in line with the social context of China.On the basis of understanding the essence,symptoms,and dimensions of adversity,Chinese women view it as the tempering of family growth,the reconstruction of family endowment,and the stimulation of family potential.They integrate this belief system into the concrete and subtle"constancy"of life,and in the construction of a self consistent"world of meaning",they use softness to alleviate the impact of adversity on the family and help promote the renewal of adversity on the family.In the specific practice process,they rely on the family community based on ethical standards,consolidate the ethical axis of marital harmony,promote intergenerational support for parent-child interconnection,integrate the family network with deep brotherly affection,reconstruct social support for the coexistence of righteousness and benefit,and continuously absorb and promote national policies that care for women.As a result,Chinese women have achieved a historic leap from forbearance to outward release,from"de ego"to"self existence",and from self-awareness to comprehensive empowerment.