恋爱经历对大学生亲密恐惧和婚姻态度的影响

Influence of love experience on intimate fear and marriage attitude of college students

目的了解大学生亲密恐惧和婚姻态度现状,探讨恋爱经历对大学生亲密恐惧和婚姻态度的影响,为开展婚恋观教育提供参考。方法采用《亲密恐惧成分量表》和《婚姻态度量表》对某高校1182名大学生进行线上问卷调查。结果恐惧失去自我(F=3.60,P=0.028)、一般婚姻观念(F=3.88,P=0.021)和自我婚姻展望(F=10.36,P<0.001)在不同恋爱经历间差异具有统计学意义,没有恋爱经历学生的恐惧和失去自我得分高于有≥2次恋爱经历的学生(P=0.027),没有恋爱经历的学生婚姻态度得分低于有恋爱经历的学生(P<0.05)。亲密恐惧两维度(F_(1)=3.35,P_(1)=0.035,F_(2)=18.00,P_(2)<0.001)和婚姻态度两维度(F_(1)=7.40,P_(1)=0.001,F_(2)=21.94,P_(2)<0.001),不同恋爱状况间差异均具有统计学意义,正恋爱学生的恐惧失去自我得分最低(P<0.001),婚姻态度得分最高(P<0.05),曾恋爱但现在单身学生的恐惧失去对方得分高于从未恋爱学生(P=0.046)。结论恋爱经历相对丰富的学生有更低的亲密恐惧和更积极的婚姻态度。处于恋爱状态能促进大学生降低亲密恐惧并提高婚姻态度积极性,失败的恋爱经历会提高亲密恐惧并降低婚姻态度积极性。

Objective To understand the current situation of intimate fear and marriage attitude of college students,to explore the influence of love experience on these two aspects of college students,and to provide reference for the education of marriage and love.Methods An online questionnaire survey was conducted among 1182 college students with Intimacy and Fear Component Scale and Marriage Attitude Scale.Results Fear of losing oneself(F=3.60,P=0.028),general marriage attitude(F=3.88,P=0.021)and self-marriage outlook(F=10.36,P<0.001)were significantly different among different love experiences,the students with no love experience had higher score than those with two or more love experiences(P-0.027),and the scores of marriage attitude were lower than those with love experience(P<0.05).There were significant differences among different love states in the two dimensions of intimacy fear(F_(1)=3.35,P_(1)=0.035,F_(2)=18.00,P_(2)<0.001)and marriage attitude(F_(1)=7.40,P_(2)=0.001,F_(2)=21.94,P_(2)<0.001).The students who were in love had the lowest score of fear of losing themselves(P<0.001)and the highest score of marriage attitude(P<0.05).The students who had been in love but were single now had a higher score of fear of losing each other than those who had never been in love(P=0.046).Conclusions Students with more love experiences tend to have lower intimacy fear and more positive attitudes toward marriage.Being in love can reduce the fear of intimacy and improve the positivity of marriage attitude of college students,and the failure of love experience can increase the fear of intimacy and reduce the positivity of marriage attitude.