人情练达薛宝钗

Xue Baochai——an experienced and worldly-wise character

通过对薛宝钗交际特点的分析 ,探讨最高尚和最卑微之间的生活常态中的人际关系。薛宝钗的交际艺术特点是宽以待人 ;善解人意 ;行为得体 ,善于自控 ;显示其存在又不抢风头 ,长于防卫又不过当 ;化解嫌隙 ,不落是非。

The relations with people in daily lives between the noblest and lowest by way of the analysis on Xue Baochai's characteristics during social intercourse is presented.She is lenient to other people and thoughtful in knowing people's intentions.She behaves appropriately and controls hersef well.She can not only weaken the limelight but also show herself.She is not only excessive but good at defencing herself as well.She always solves contradictions and never tells tales.The art of Xue Baochai's social intercourse is referable in improving people's ability of social intercourese,gathering collective and the whole society.